YOUTH

-


We won’t ever be this young again. This day, this hour, this minute, it’s the youngest we will ever be for the rest of our lives. If you think about it like that, and think about all of the time you’ve spent worrying over things that now don’t matter, don’t you see how much of a waste it was?

All the stress, all the upset, all the anger – for what? You only get one chance at life and none of us know what tomorrow has in store so why are we not living as if every day could be our last? 21 short years I’ve been on this earth, and I’ve already spent so much time on people, feelings, things that didn’t deserve my energy. I’m sure you have too.

Tell your family & friends how much you adore and appreciate them every day. Smile at a stranger. Give up your seat on the tube…people will look at you like you’ve lost your marbles…but just do it. Help people if they need help and offer your support and advice where you think it may be needed. Do what makes you happy and live your life for you.

Spend less time worrying about what might happen and spend more time appreciating what is happening, right now in this moment. Whatever happens tomorrow, in a month, in a year from now, will happen regardless of whether you worry about it now or not – just let it be. Let the future do its thing whilst you enjoy the present. Appreciate your youth – it won’t stick around forever.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Reflection

-
Image
It's February, almost March...where have the past 2 months gone already? When you're told 'don't wish your life away' growing up you just shrug it off as another comment made by yet another adult. It's only when you are 'yet another adult' that you realise you in fact, have wished your life away and now that you have a 9-5 job, working 5 days of every week and a fair amount of responsibilities, you're no longer wishing your life away and instead, are wishing each day would be 24 hours longer. It's a shame that isn't the way the world works, right? I started 2019 thinking this would be 'my year' along with the rest of us (how cliché) and I still do believe it could be. It's all in your mind - if you believe you can do it, you really can. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow but eventually you will achieve what you want to. I've had set backs already this year (just a month and a half in) and thought my world was going to
Read more

Take your time

-
Image
“Time exposes people’s intentions and qualities” something that someone said to me recently when I asked them why they don’t think they have found ‘ the one ’ yet. What a great statement and perspective on things?! It really got me thinking about my own personal life and situations that I have been in and I realised that honestly, patience is key and good things really do come to those who wait. The longer you spend just ‘getting to know’ someone, with no labels and no expectations, the better you can see whether you’re actually compatible or not. When I say compatible, I mean in terms of both a friendship and relationship. It’s very easy to get carried away with our feelings and jump into something because at the time it feels right. But then you might find yourself 2 years down the line realising that had you just taken a bit longer getting to know this person you would have noticed all of the red flags before you were so invested in what you now have. That’s the thin
Read more

"Life is full of them"

-
Image
“Mistakes, life is full of them, apparently” Someone once said to me, and that is the honest truth. If you are going through life thinking that nothing is ever your fault and that you haven’t made mistakes then, well you have a big wakeup call coming your way my friend. The fact is, mistakes are what make and shape you as a person. They teach you lessons that you would not learn otherwise, they teach you a lot about yourself and what is right and wrong. I will be the first to admit that I hate being in the wrong and knowing that I am the one who needs to apologise. That being said, I will always own up to it once I realise that it is the case. We all say things we don’t mean, make rash decisions and fuck up every once in a while. Some do this more than others, but at the end of the day - ALL of us do it. Sometimes we will stand by what we have said or done and do not believe we are in the wrong and that’s ok too, but you have affected somebody else with your actions so the
Read more