Soulmates

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I can’t decide whether I believe in such a thing or not. When you are in a relationship and completely devoted to that person, it is easy to think that they really are your soulmate and that nobody else could possibly make you as happy as they do. You two are so compatible, totally get each other in every sense, have similar interests but not so much that you cannot be individuals also. If you’re anything like me, when in a relationship you see that person as the one you will spend every future experience with. They will be the one who you come home to everyday, share stories from work with, have in-jokes with, the only one who you can be YOU around and not receive any judgement, ever.

That being said, is there only one soulmate for each person in this whole world? Realistically speaking, there are 7.5 billion people on the earth and ok you aren’t going to meet anywhere near all of those people to weigh up your options. But do we really think that out of 7.5 billion people, there is only ONE person who we are truly compatible with?

I think that when you come out of a relationship with someone who you really thought was your soulmate, it is definitely hard to see that you will find anyone who is as compatible with you ever again. This is why it’s so important to take that time afterwards to completely heal before looking for anything else. Chances are you’ll be searching for that same thing in someone else and if we’re honest with ourselves – you’re not with that person anymore and for one reason or another, things went wrong and you therefore need something different.

You are going to come across people in life who you really click with and your personalities compliment each other more than anyone else you’ve ever met, but the romantic spark isn’t there. That’s fine, don’t force it. Sometimes our soulmates don’t have to be romantic interests, I think it’s perfectly fine to have certain soulmates who you consider friends. 

So maybe I’ve answered my own curiosity – I don’t believe that there is only have one soulmate per person in this world. I believe you have multiple soulmates and some just work better off as friends. So you just have to find the one who can offer you both the friendship and romantic interest, and they are out there – along the way you’ll just meet a load of likeminded people who will hopefully be treasured as friends true. How great is that?

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